I have shared in my previous post “A non-gay Sexual Brotherhood” about the reasons why we learned that sexuality is a hidden thing, that nobody sees besides the partner in our bedroom (or the place to where we may try to escape). There I already spoke about the way how boxing-in the untamed (DE ungezähmte) sexual energy reduces our manifesting life force and how a sexual brotherhood could help us get back to our primal abilities.
But there is another damage! How many of us have sexual insecurities? Or feel in some way or the other insufficient? Such insecurities deeply undermine our self-confidence in all other areas of our lives, consciously or unconsciously. What if we could get rid of them?
I firmly believe that those are simply a by-product of the sexual isolation we have been conditioned to live and obey to. This often creates in us a totally wrong perception. We ‘know’ how the dicks of others are - only by seeing porn. Of course as a consequence some believe that theirs is the smallest in the world! (And of course that does something with us!). We only see those Adonis-like men who don’t stop to fuck for hours and still have their boner standing - of course we can easily feel insufficient!
What about our body image? Those who are not happy with their bodies (actually I believe this is true for quite a lot of us in some way), can we feel one with all the other brothers, equally sufficient and empowered, because we see each other (including naked) and participate in each other’s ways and support us mutually for our self-confidence? Then we may also see this Adonis-type brother and he is just a brother like me and we love each other. That takes away a lot. I can feel encouraged to may be better take care of my body but I can do it with peace because I’m already ok. And my brother is with me.
What about cock size? May being together naked teaches me that I don’t have the smallest cock in the world. And even if that was so, I am still just as empowered as all the others!
What about all those other problems, early ejaculation, felt insufficient erection, missing Libido… - can we just be at home with our fellow brothers, share, get rid of the stress that is often behind, because we have no longer to compete?
I am convinced that this honest type of naked brotherhood, that doesn’t exclude sexuality, would remove a lot of shame and insecurities that weaken us not only in our sexual interactions with whomever we love physically, but they weaken the whole of our person for everything that we are called to bring into this world.
At the same time, stepping into that kind of brotherhood is tremendously healing! Do you have an experience with it or a desire? Share it in the comments or in the group chat.
When will we meet as brothers in person? Do you want to be with us? Write me a message (mention where in the world you are located) and let’s find out how we’ll do it!
Love you all!
Total agreement!
By keeping our perspective on other men through watching porn it surely makes us doubt about our bodies, cock size, fitness between the sheets, strength of erections...list could go on if we allow our brain to set more insecurities.
My personal experiences with nudity and brotherhood gave me such liberation of my own doubts. All bodytypes, cocksizes, soft erections and strong ones. So much diversity and to me THAT is beautiful.
Not a one side note of same-looking men muscled up.
By making pictures of myself being naked I've learned to really look at my own body, without focussing on one part that I'm proud of or (in most cases) the insecurity about size, tight balls or less muscle-build.
The liberation is into sharing our nudity, vulnerability and desires. That's where (to me) people really get attractive and sexual chemistry has room to expand.
Love yourself!! 🙌
Beautiful words and i absolutely agree with you, Patrick. We should not be ashamed. Penises are beautiful regardless of the size. We should always show them and connect with our brothers, as well as help them to not be ashamed of their manhood.